Dance Dance Dance

Ok so post time. Lately I have actually been a busy guy. Its like my feet touch the ground and I start running and only stop when I exhaust.
Today was a rest day. I have been working out, and I think I over worked myself because I woke up with stiff, achy leg muscles;oops! I cant sit comfortably in a chair lol.
So work is going great! I love it. It is as bookstore as you can get. The most fun and interesting thing is working at the trade desk. the things you learn about people by assessing theirs books. I once took in a book about masturbation (it was a 80s era explicit tutorial on how to masturbate);AWESOME!
Another plus side to working is that Changing hands is located in a plaza with no gross fast food places. I have been eating a lot more healthy, which in return, is helping with my get sexy plan! yeah! I remember I had so many unhealthy options when i worked for Borders-Chronic Taco, Jackin the box (yes I meant it that way lol), Panda Express, Munchies; The list goes on and on. I remember I gained so much weight. It didn't feel good. NOW, I have three choices, Macs, Wildflower Cafe, or Trader Joe's. All have really great food!
All I need is a man.
speaking of men...They blow and not in the way I have always wanted.
I have been attempting this dating thing, and like usual, its a bust.
so far i've met the following men:
-Hot guy with equally hot boyfriend, who is happy with his partner, yet propositions me for random hook ups
-Old bears
-Positive guys who insist on bareback sex
-men who aren't actually interested in me
-creepy old guys
-Really desperate men
Now the types aren't just one guy, I keep running into the same types over and over again.
It worries me the amount of positive men who are all about the BB sex and the negative men who are all into it. I am not a bug chaser! I will always practice safe sex! *steps off soapbox and returns to being Pedro*
So I had a funny moment with cheater boy again (the guy who keeps trying to hook up with me even though hes with man):
(his screen name was changed)
jakpedz: so how are you and the moster?
R: My monsters waiting for u. We have been good
jakpedz: oops I meant mister as in your boyfriend lol
I spent an hour laughing after that.
Someone asked me what my type was. I couldn't actually answer. What is my type? Everyone I have dated have been so diverse; I liked each of them for their own attributes, and not for a collective quality. The only thing that I guess would be a type is if they had a nice ass (im an ass man). That is also a problem because guys asses are like snow flakes, each one different and beautiful in its own way (Did I just equate guys asses to snowflakes?LOL)
Where can you find quality gay men now? I have exhausted all the options.I have tried bars, I have joined gay mens clubs, I have cruised the smutty internet sites liek A4A and manhunt, I have chatted on facebook and myspace. Where else? I am romantically frustrated....